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Tag: self love

The Balancing Act

With the world at it’s current state and the after effects of quarantine beginning to unravel, we as a society have an obligation to assist others. During the beginning of quarantine, we saw a huge influx of people seeking answers to questions that they may not have had before. The realization of a general lack of self-care or not knowing how to properly care for yourself can be daunting. However, the need to help others comes from within and that burning desire to leave an impact on the world is what we need in order to help each other during these times.

Self-care has become a common term used amongst population as more and more information on how to properly care for yourself continue to flood the internet and social media world. This push for self-improvement might just be what society needs in order to rebuild our own mental strength but may also bring unnecessary stress if not careful. The pressures of the world can be enough to leave people feeling inferior or not worthy of giving themselves the love in which they need to help others but the truth is that you are more than deserving.

If we widen the microscope and look at this idea from a slightly more esoteric perspective than it is easier to understand that as humans, we are all equal and are deserving simply because we exist. You are no different than the person next to you yet somehow you might have convinced yourself that you deserve less. I am hear to tell you that that is not true and most of your journey towards true self-improvement is saying it to yourself that you are deserving until you longer doubt it. The balancing act of helping yourself and others is to put your own growth first and help others in your improved state. A healing soul sharing advice and life experience to another healing soul can only help it grow, however with that being said a wounded spirit can hinder the spirit of person trying to evolve and improve.

I ask you to challenge yourself going forward as we reach the halfway point of 2020 and to seek more personal knowledge. Discomfort is the symptom right before change and the best way to change is through new experiences and objectives. Set a few new goals for yourself, both mental and physical. Continue to learn more about yourself and share your experiences with friends in order to enrich their lives as well. The constant need to discourage ourselves as motivation is a dated practice and setting new healthier objectives can be more beneficial to one’s vibration. Remember the idea that it is a push and pull effect and the healthier your spirit, the healthier the energy.

Symptom of the Unknown: Laziness

As the paradigm of life begins to shift, I think there will be people approaching a new life journey of mastering their mind. One of the most difficult life challenges is creating a better self-image of yourself. We as a society have evolved in scientific and medical creations but have lost sight of the power of self-improvement. Many people go about their days burdened with unpursued dreams, negative self-talk, and expectations that others including parents may have placed over their shoulders. A yearn for change will bring up many personal questions but one most important of all, the difference between being lazy and uninspired in one’s life.

No pressure placed by anyone can be greater than the pressure placed on ourselves but with that being said what stops us from moving? When I say moving, I mean more so in the pursuit of our passions and everything we aspire to be. Often times we are quick to base it off of one vague word known as laziness to blanket over the myriad of emotions that stops people from chasing their dreams however the new question is where does it come from? What new age mental coaches have begun to ask is how to move people out of the fear state and into the abundant mindset. It has been determined that there is now a distinct correlation between fear and laziness, however with a few small changes we can begin to create a new reality for ourselves and the power and confidence to change our lives.

Laziness is the unwillingness to pursue goals, tasks, or new projects in terms of the current “comfort” in which our mental state currently resides in. Fear often times manifests itself unwanted energy and thought processes that hinder us from doing what it is that we love. Fear of failure, fear of unreached expectations, and fear of success are among the most common. Laziness is when you convince yourself that the fear of starting and never achieving is less valuable than ever igniting that dream in the first place. The self-dismantlement of one’s own spirit by negative self-talk to remind us of the false notion that our dream is unattainable. From the never wanting to hear the detrimental “I told you so” line to the heartbreak of never reaching your desired end goal can be discouraging.

There is however an end to all the mental madness. By priming ourselves with self-betterment tools and habits we can take the driver’s seat to changing our lives in whichever way we may choose to do so. Inspiration starts with the willingness to work on one’s self. It is understanding the idea that the more we begin to look and heal from within the more mental clarity and guidance we will have to bring us to all of our manifestations. We can give ourselves the permission to heal from the plagues of our past and look towards a new life by changing our perspective of how we view ourselves. Begin by telling yourself that you deserve it all and that you are absolutely worthy. Long are the days of the old you and welcome your hidden potential. Let go of those in the past who hurt you and focus simply on what you can do now to push you towards your dreams. Ask yourself questions such as “what do I like?” or “what would the better version of me look like?” Open ended questions about yourself will open new doors to new life creations. Remember the healthier and positive the questions you ask yourself are, the more abundant the answers will be.

Self Care Leads to Soulmates

As more and more people become aware of their spiritual surroundings, we can see a common question circulating the internet realms. Humans are not only discovering themselves but seeking their soulmates by turning inwards and following their ambitions. This post discusses the theory of how self-love leads to destined souls meeting based on divine timing and a unique theory in regards to how the universe works.

Humans will have multiple soulmates during their lifetime as not all soulmates have to be romantic. Soulmate relationships do not necessarily have to last forever in order to have an impact on someone’s soul during their human experience. With that being said soulmates are placed into our own unique human experience in order to help us grow and guide us through various life lessons aligned to help us reach our true potential. To some that growth timetable may only be months and for others years, but in the end, there is no end. The theory is that humans on the path to self-love and acceptance are most likely to meet their “truest” soulmate. In the eyes of the universe your reality is a direct reflection of the mind. How you view and see yourself in this world plays a role in your love experience. Intense soulmate love occurs when two whole souls who have reached a graced level of self-love will see a reflection of their own self. Their reality will become a manifested soulmate achieved by simply raising one’s vibration to a higher personal standard.

The secret is that there are no secrets. Words carry strong energy and thoughts are constantly manifesting. Raise your personal vibration and strive to reach your greatest potential and watch how quickly your life begins to change. You should be able to give the same compliments you give to others to yourself. You should be able to motivate yourself to be healthier and aim to be better everyday not necessarily for the sake of others but for yourself. Bring out your best self by properly caring for yourself and watch what happens. The change will be subtle however you will find yourself meeting people with ambitions similar to yours if you open your awareness.

Those who achieve self-knowledge and mastery are able to raise vibrations of those around and influence every area of his or her life including love even if they are not aware of the quantum physics proven behind these theories. So be more positive towards yourself and be proud of how far you have come. Remember to always give yourself credit for your achievements as you should be your biggest fan.